Peace comes from speaking another language…or does it?

Is language enough to bring peace between peoples?
Is language enough to bring peace between peoples?
 I’m a bleeding heart when it comes to language. In post after post, I write about how learning your neighbor’s language will help bring more understanding and peace.

Let’s be honest, though. Does learning the language of another really bring peace? Young Palestinians know Hebrew. Almost all Ukrainians are bilingual in Ukrainian and Russian. Most Ethiopians and Eritreans speak mutually comprehensible languages, as do many Indians and Pakistanis.

This week I had to rethink some of my rhetoric, to tighten it up.

To achieve peace and understanding, learning a language will not be enough. We language-learners must submit and become the students of those who speak other languages. Listening to them, not imposing our view, not manipulating them, must be our goal so that we can challenge our assumptions and gain wisdom.

This reflection was inspired an episode of the podcast, “Lexicon Valley,” that featured John McWhorter interviewing Gretchen McCulloch. The main subject was emojis as a language, but the conversation went towards the reasons why someone would want emojis to be a language.

Ms. McCulloch writes important pieces about linguistics for non-specialists. (I had the pleasure of meeting her at the Polyglot Conference in 2015.) She gives everyday people the tools to reflect consciously on language, this means of communication that we all use intuitively without always thinking about.

At moment 11:40 in the interview, she called out what she called the “common language equals peace fallacy.” She explained that “civil wars are a thing” and “you can have an argument in a marriage,” both of which situations demonstrate that it takes more than a common language to bring peace. “You can speak the same language but you don’t get along,” she correctly asserts.

Oops! I thought. Have I been wrong? I worried.

After some thought I realized she didn’t even mention the half of it. Mark Zuckerberg did not learn Mandarin to impress his wife alone, but to ingratiate himself to the Chinese Government. Germans do not learn English just because they love American culture, but to do business in an English-dominated marketplace. The CIA does not teach Pashtun to connect with a unique culture, but to gain intelligence to win a war.

In these cases, the learner is not seeking to become wiser. All of them seek to gain materially from the person they’re interacting with.

How can I learn truth from this person? we must ask ourselves. Whether the person comes from the other side of a civil war, or we’re married to her, we have to ask this question. We have to listen.

When we learn the language of another person, we submit to experiences and stories very different from ours. When I learned Russian, I became able to listen to stories of religion and government and war and poverty way beyond my own. Many did not know English, so their point of view was “untainted” by my American culture, that is, they spoke a truth as distinct from my truth as was possible.

In studying Oromo, I learn about customs and lifestyles so different from mine, that I can’t help but look differently at my own assumptions.

We learn wisdom through the humble focus on what we don’t know. Struggling to speak a difficult language, working through the confusion of a different point of view, we can challenge our world view and acquire new stories and further wisdom. When we challenge constantly what we believe to be true, we can, in fact, bring about more peace, even preventing civil war and healing our marriages.

Do you agree? Can a common language bring peace? How can language help bring people together?

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9 thoughts on “Peace comes from speaking another language…or does it?

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  2. I think learning other languages eliminate (or, more realistically, greatly reduce) misunderstanding as a cause of conflict. So I think what you see is:

    – If there are other reasons for conflict, such as in the Middle East, the conflict stays intact.
    – For good-hearted people who desire peace, eliminate the misunderstanding and peace is all but assured
    – Human nature being what it is, there are unfortunately plenty of people who will find an excuse for conflict and to hate the “other.” Understanding doesn’t address this at all, so the conflict remains.

    Those are my thoughts on this.

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  3. Buidheag

    Language is a step, but it’s neither sufficient nor necessary. Like you said in this great post, there’s been some horrible acts of war between people who spoke the same language. But there’s also been some great acts of peace between humans who did not speak the same language.

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  4. Buidheag

    I think you need to become the “other” to stop hurting the “other”. But many people don’t care about not hurting the “other” unfortunately :/

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  7. marisainbetween

    Just read this post after your encouragement, and it does resonate with my own reflections and experiences. I am a translator and interpreter by training. One of the most often cited example of how learning another language can broaden our own horizon is the Inuit language which has words for different categories and types of snow. Language reflects culture and surroundings. This in turn means that a language opens up a whole new world for us which we have not been able to see before.

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